First on my short list of what I "must have" in a match is a genuine Christian, so I'll know that we have a similar outlook on life and nearly the same values, purposes and goals. That's about my only non-negotiable. After that, I'm looking for someone I'm comfortable around, someone relaxed, personable and friendly. I'm looking for profile photos with eyes that sparkle with joy (or mischief), and faces that naturally seem to smile, because that would be an upbeat person and someone who likes to laugh a lot. I also like seeing outdoor settings in profiles because I like “natural” and think everybody looks better outdoors.

Men who are kind, affectionate, humble and compassionate are extremely attractive to me. I also have a lot of respect for guys who share what they have with the needy, by volunteering or Christian service or missions. I like a guy who enjoys being a traditional man and enjoys a traditional woman, like the black and white TV shows and movies.