About DisplacedDamsel:
About you.............

You are available, divorced and seeking to meet new people with the ultimate goal of finding a real relationship. You don\'t want to rush into anything, yet you would like to have someone special in your life. You\'re independant, not seeking a caregiver or a provider; yet you still desire someone who listens, cares, and wants to hold you in their arms. Laughing, romance and passion are very important in the relationship you want, and so is communication, honesty and faithfulness.

If I\'ve described you, I\'ve described us both.

I had a lot of information about me in my profile.
I\'ve learned that you won\'t know much about what I\'m like,
until you meet the real me - in person.

but back to the old version profile..........

I live in an old house that was built in 1957. My grandparents bought the house that year and my daughter is the 4th generation of my family to live in the house.Pretty cool right? That sort of thing never happens anymore. I affectionately call it the money pit! lol But it is full of old charm and grace with its hardwood floors, knotty pine paneling in some rooms but it is WAY to big for just the two of us.We had a kitchen fire a few months back and the kitchen is a work in progress. I redid the kitchen to be light and airy with sky blue paint and TONS of sunflowers.I love projects at home and have actually converted bunk beds into a king size bed, laid a floor on my sunporch, refinished furniture and recovered my loveseat when I saw how much it was going to cost otherwise! Mercy sakes, those folks make a killing!

I work with troubled kids, I don\'t really like to talk about my work till I get to know someone. I get the same questions everytime and forgive me in advance if I seem evasive. I work nights and was a social worker in Florida. I will have to go back to school to do this in Alabama though. Maybe I can next fall.Got that MAT book and a highlighter and index cards!!!!

I am divorced!!! and a tummy tuck and had the girls done! I thought I would never say thank goodness for lawyers and plastic surgeons but Dolly Parton made it ok for a southern lady to say she had work done?lol

Ok, so there is one tiny picture for you to judge me by. I am 5\'7\" and am what some would call curvy.(I don\'t sweat it since a certain 50\'s blonde was a 14) I have big blue eyes, fair skin and tons of curly dark hair. Don\'t let the curves scare you, I have lost an incredible 200 plus pounds and have just a little more to go. I had surgery in May 08 to fix a few problems associated with the weight lose so watch out world!lol I work out several times a week now to tighten up and am looking forward to a figure that matches my new active lifestyle. I also don\'t eat anything with a face and shy away from all dairy products or eggs. I wear like an 16 in jeans, a 10/12 in dresses and a Medium or large in tops. I LOVE dresses from a certain store with pink bags. Ask me if you can\'t figure that out! lol I have been told I am a pretty woman with a personality full of mischief. I do love to cut up when I know someone and if we go out, don\'t let me have more than 2 glasses of organic red wine or I might dance on a table.......

What I want in a man? Well that\'s a loaded question! I would like him to be taller than I am hopefully, he would be truthful but tactful, he would adore me for me, he would eventually love my angel since we are a package deal and most of all, if he worked for a state agency, he could pass a background screen!lol I don\'t want perfection nor do I want to get remarried right now, I am just getting out of that mess! I want a friend first and we shall see what path the road of life takes us on. Oh, the most important thing about a prospective fella, my toes curl when I kiss him and he sees fireworks when he kisses me! Fair enough?

If I peaked your interest, contact me please. I am open to the avenues and adventures of life.Thanks for reading!