I absolutely adore the male of the species - all ages, shapes, sizes, colors, and personalities. A great personality, open-mindedness, and respect are required - non-negotiable! A wicked little boy glint of the eyes and feisty smile will get you noticed. But, it's how you say what you say that counts.

I seek a relationship with a strong (mentally and emotionally) man who is confident, respectful (of others and self), intelligent (does not neccessarily equate with book smart), quick witted, playful, an open communicator, and is willing to let me see his vulnerabilities in addition to his strengths.

If you hunt, I will understand and accept the survival of the fittest concept. I only ask that you don't tell me about your kills unless you want to see a woman cry. I have a hard time tolerating cigarette smokers. Any substance abuse, presecription or otherwise, is not acceptable to me.

If you are contacting me with the sole goal of cybering, then I am not the right person for you. I prefer getting to know a man both online and in person before moving into intimate moments. Public venues, of which FarmersOnly.com is one, should establish lines of communication between mature adults. For me, it is fun to unwrap the layers of a person to get to the inner soul - even for limited encounters. Once that occurs, then the real adventures begin. A man who is a gentleman in public..... and willing to exhibit his full range of self in private...... is my ideal!

I am unable to just drop my schedule to meet. Therefore, some planning is necessary. The cool thing about this is it enhances curiosity (at least for me) so that when it is time to meet, the anticipation does truly make it feel like a special occasion.

My Ideal Person: Qualifications for Consideration - Quick Wit, Intelligence, Great Sense of Humor, Honesty, Directness, Respect, Open Communication, Trust, Unconditional Acceptance of a Person Inside and Out, and Self-Confidence. Cocky, know-it-all, macho, vain men need not apply. Self-centeredness does not make a good partner in my world.