About dradonfly11:
Hi.. Let me tell you a little about me.. I am 5\'8, 130 lbs and divorced for about 4 yrs. Have 3 almost grown and gone children. I have lived in AR for a little over a year after closing a business in VA. I am tall and wear heels so I like tall men, at least 6 ft tall and in the age range from 40-50 yrs old, not intended to demean anybody. I enjoy a glass of wine and an occasional cigarette. I am looking to meet someone who can be a partner not a doormat, nor do I want to be a doormat. I am a Christian as well.

I have taken the last couple of years to figure out who I am and what I want and where I want that relationship to go. I want to find my best friend. No matter what we go through in a days time that at the end of the day..it is he for me and me for him. I have enclosed some thoughts and also a pic. This is one from Sept 08 and I can send more later. Thanks for looking, hope to hear from you, if not I understand. It does take chemistry as well. Good luck to us all. Please respond with a pic.



Maybe ...we were supposed to meet the wrong people before meeting the
right one so that, when we finally meet the right person,
we will know how to be grateful for that gift.


Maybe . . . when the door of happiness closes, another opens;
but, often times, we look so long at the closed door that we don\'t even
see the new one which has been opened for us.


Maybe . . . it is true that we don\'t know what we have until
we lose it, but it is also true that we don\'t know what we have been
missing until it arrives.


Maybe . . . the happiest of people don\'t necessarily have the
best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes
along their way.


Maybe . . . the brightest future will always be based on a
forgotten past; after all, you can\'t go on successfully in life until
you let go of your past mistakes, failures and heartaches.


Maybe . . . you should dream what you want to dream; go where
you want to go, be what you want to be, because you have only one life
and one chance to do all the things you dream of, and want to do.


Maybe . . . there are moments in life when you miss someone --
a parent, a spouse, a friend, a child -- so much that you just want to
pick them from your dreams and hug them for real, so that once they are
around you appreciate them more.


Maybe . . . the best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on
a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling
like it was the best conversation you\'ve ever had.


Maybe . . you should always try to put yourself in others\'
shoes. If you feel that something could hurt you, it probably will hurt the other person too.



Maybe . . you should do something nice for someone every
single day, even if it is simply to leave them alone.


Maybe . . giving someone all your love is never an assurance
that they will love you back. Don\'t expect love in return; just wait
for it to grow in their heart; but, if it doesn\'t, be content that it
grew in yours.

Maybe . . . happiness waits for all those who cry, all those
who hurt, all those who have searched, and all those who have tried,
for only they can appreciate the importance of all the people who have
touched their lives.


Maybe . . . you shouldn\'t go for looks; they can deceive;
don\'t go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you
smile, because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.
Find the one that makes your heart smile.