About melindarn:
Hi!
I am an easy-going and open-minded gal. I like to ride ATV\'s, go hiking and fishing. I also play online poker from time to time.

It\'s also time to start working on that bucket list!! Are you adventurous enough to join me?? If you are someone like me that thinks life truly does begin at 40 (or 45) you may be the right partner in crime.

I have lost over 20 pounds over the past few months. I am no longer opposed to being seen in a bikini and that feels goooooooooooood! So please don\'t bring me down by expecting a nearly 45 year old woman to look like a co-ed. It\'s just not realistic. I\'m making myself happy, no one else. (Just a side note: I put average on my profile because that IS what I am. The average woman in the US wears a size 14. So do I. My goal is a size 12 or less.)

I like going out to the occasional movie or dinner, but I am also a great cook and the convenience of being able to pause or rewind the movie is nice. I am not hard to please.(Really, really, really I\'m not!!) I may be the one woman on earth that TRULY doesn\'t care if you take me to dinner at a fast-food place for our first date.

I am a blue jean/barefoot kind of gal but I also \"clean up nice\". I do own nice dresses and suits. I know to dress up for job interviews and church (though if I am willing to go to church there, you don\'t have to). If you think I am sinful or doomed because I have tatooed my skin then keep looking. They are tasteful and hidden by clothing but all are uncovered by a bikini. Wanna see??

I just want someone to share good times with and see where it goes. I do not play the jealous games; if you do, look elsewhere for a companion. I am tired of hearing, \"I don\'t share\" or some equivalent when what is really meant is, \"I won\'t share you, but you have to share me\".

Please remember that I am not your ex or some other woman that did you wrong. I do not deserve to pay for the sins of others. (Yes, guys, I know women do it too. I try to take everyone on their own merits. HECK! I even give second chances!)