Must like hugs and kisses. I want a man whom eventually wants an honest relationship, where we can build upon it and have adventures, get into wholesome mischief together. A man who is enquisitive by nature, loves trying new things, want some one to grow older with and enjoy our time together. A man who is my best friend and lover. I love and admire a man with special or different talents whether he's a carpenter, or an environmentallist, or likes grafting new species of tomato plants etc or plays an instrument. He should enjoy his accomplishments, be proud of them and be willing to share them with me. He should like learning new and different things. I'm into history, science, western theology as it pertains to ancient astronaunts and human beginnings, sharing knowledge about issues from the environment to politics and religion, and just so you know I'm usually right and can win a debate with the best of them. I would expect a man to be able to hold his own in a debate with me, but be prepared to lose I am very well versed. I like a man whose intelligent and thinks for himself. Who's a good listener and at the same time a man whom can carry on a conversation because I love to talk on several issues and I do. There is nothing sexier than a man who's smart. You know that woman are attracted to a man that can make our minds, before he makes our bodies. That's what impresses a woman. Love starts with a glance or a smile and sparks between our ears. That's where our spark happens, only then do other things follow.