I seek a man with an open mind about everything..Life, love, sex, problems and solutions who doesn’t run away from problems, but instead, turns and faces them head-on with intelligence. He must be a christian and be willing to go to church. I want a man who is a passionate lover, who understands the importance of sex in a committed relationship. I want a man who is a GREAT communicator AS WELL AS listener. I want a lover and companion who will bond his heart, soul, mind and body with mine and give till he can’t give, for he will receive the same back from me. I’ve learned to deal with life and others with lots of patience and most of all, an open-mind these days. Life is just too short to play games with one another, whether it be friends, acquaintances or lovers. All that is required for any relationship is honesty, openness and heart-to-heart communication that is GENUINE between 2 people. You have to live life to its fullest each and every day like it is YOUR LAST day on life, because you just never know...it may just be! People need to bond the heart, mind and soul of each other and live closer ....kind of like they use to live back in the 50s, and maybe even the 60s. In the 80s and on up, WE as a people lost something there...and haven’t got it back yet. I believe that the man should be the leader in the family and the women should follow his lead. The way relationships use to be a longtime ago. The man took care of his family and their well being was always his first thought. Where the women cared for all his needs, emotional and physical . She is the only one who can \"fix\" him when he has had a bad day, it\'s her he wants. This type of relationship has total emotional security with no fear of judgement. I am a family person, I have the greatest kids on the planet next to yours im sure. I spend alot of my time with my kids as well and love it but I also know the importance of adult time. The only way I know how to love is unconditionally, I don\'t think families are biological. I live a pretty simple life. I have horses and my kids are involved in playday\'s with them. I can go from boots and jeans to heels and a dress pretty darn quick and am comfortable around all kinds of people. I love my home , and am pretty happy enjoying a nice evening at home but would be more content with someone to share it with. I am not and never have been a bar scene type of person.