About mayimhayim:
Hwdy, I am a fun and charismatic dude that would like to meet some new people. I\'ve got extremely strict criteria for my future wife, but I love all , so if you have something interesting on your mind then give me a buzz and share! (But read my profile first, so you\'re not surprised by getting e-mails from a paralyzed wise ass! :-)

One of the things that I look forward to is to just becoming friends; best friends with someone I can be completely open and honest with and expect the same. Of course, I could always find a platonic friend to fulfill this, so I\'m looking to also satisfy all my physical and emotional desires. I\'ve danced with this in relationships in the past, but with a perfect mate-chosen by God, I expect my breath to be taken away when she enters the room... or into my thoughts. I want to be so infatuated with the complexity of her personality that I don\'t bore of talking to, or about her... intelligence and wit are super hot, but a load of compassion sure makes companionship easier.

My grandmother was a perfect example of the Proverbs 31 lifestyle. Her genuine excellence, combined with my rose-colored hindsight, has seriously cramped my search for a wife. It\'s so hard to find anyone to match up with her memory. My ideal would be finding someone with her faith, but with my sense of adventure, or crazy outlook on life. I truly am an oxymoron; fervent Christian with a wild sense of humor, so you will never know if you\'re going to hear a statement of faith or an off-color joke. Life with me will never be boring.

And don\'t freak out, but my body is all messed up. I broke my neck about a dozen years ago and I use an electronic wheelchair, van with a wheelchair lift, etc. I totally believe that God will finish healing my body (he has done wonders so far), so this is a temporary situation. However, it is a SITUATION... don\'t be shy if it bothers you, but please speak up and we could always be e-mail buddies.

I also think that I should insert something about my lifestyle, since many people don\'t know about quadriplegia and because I don\'t live a very normal quadriplegic lifestyle. I am a health nut and I\'m a relatively skinny 6 foot, 165 pounds. I\'ve just got a really sexy “quad\'s belly!” Almost everything in my life is dependent on other people\'s assistance, so I have caregivers who come and assist me in the early morning and evening; I am a meticulous slavedriver, but they do awesomely, so it gives me enough time to have my real life outside of the \"paralyzed world.\"

I spend the majority of that time sitting in front of a computer, but that is because of my geekiness. I started my own company (I kill digital bugs), but I still work a full-time job, so have to get up every day for the corporate grind, so I\'m trying to keep my life fairly relaxed and available for fun.

For pleasure, I am a gardener/uncle/Blues fan/Jesus freak/gadget collector/gearhead; I\'m pretty much into a vast array of hobbies, so my schedule is pretty varied, depending on who is around to assist. I\'m also getting into learning music and languages... I like going out to do cool St. Louis stuff, like the zoo, Science Center, or butterfly House, but hate doing it alone so I like to hang with friends or family. (Or you!)

It takes a special & caring lady to tolerate my lifestyle(and jokes). I try to grow daily in my spiritual, emotional, mental, and physical condition, so eventually I plan to be worthy of a true woman of God...So, I\'ve been looking for a perfect woman with low standards! Of course, if you are an athletic, petite woman with a brain, then ya already have me hooked! ;]