Local Dating: Finding Local Singles in Rural Areas of the United States

Your friend group hasn’t grown much since college — you’ve been there, met him. Your community hasn’t changed much, and while you’d like to date locally, you’d also prefer to meet new people with similar interests as you. 

Local dating is HARD! Especially if you’ve lived in the same area nearly all your life. You know the owners of every plot of land within a 50-mile radius! 

At Farmers Only, our priority is to change how local singles view dating — we want to make it as fun and exciting as it should be.

Our platform takes the pressure off while giving rural singles the choices they feel have been lacking in their area. Feeling hopeful about meeting local singles? We’re so glad we can help.

Why Is Local Dating So Hard? 

Virtual matchmaking is a fairly new phenomenon. But in rural societies — especially those with farming backgrounds — matchmaking was a way of the world (at least the relationship world). 

Even in other countries, such as Ireland, this tradition still thrives. Matchmaking skills are passed on from father to their children, and local singles events are planned in village pubs so bachelors and spinsters can meet.

Why is this so popular?

Farmers in rural Ireland (where the majority of the population lived until half a century ago) were struggling to meet other local singles. Although Ireland is quickly becoming urbanized, matchmaking is far from a dying art.

However, in the US, vast stretches of land make distance an ongoing challenge, especially when dating locally, and feeling like your options are limited. In Ireland, it’s unlikely that there will be fifty miles to the next town or village, whereas in North America, towns could be hundreds of miles apart.

For this reason, virtual dating, even for locals, has exploded. 

What Is FarmersOnly Doing for Rural Singles?

FarmersOnly wants to help local singles in rural America connect through our online dating platform. 

You can browse singles in your area, flirt, start conversations online, and get to know your potential matches before committing to meet in person.

No more wasted nights scanning the room for someone new at your local line dancing gig or getting set up on blind dates with someone who knew someone back in high school. With Farmers Only, you can find local singles, or if it’s just not cutting it, date outside of your immediate area without leaving your home. 

FarmersOnly allows local singles to broaden their search to neighboring towns that may have otherwise seemed too far to take a chance on.

Gone are the days of feeling as if you’ll never find love locally, or that fate just isn’t on your side when you have FarmersOnly.

See Our Local Dating Success Stories

Our local dating success stories speak for themselves.

Meet Rachael and Robin, who met after realizing that asking for a little help dating isn’t necessarily a bad thing — and they were both from East Texas!

Or Jeffrey and Brittany, who found love in Southern Texas and realized quickly that a career move would not separate them.

We have connected hundreds of couples in the local dating scene. No matter if you’ve considered throwing in the towel on love, or are newly single, FarmersOnly members love the experience they get when joining our platform.

A Step-by-Step Guide to Local Dating

If you’re ready to start your local dating journey with FarmersOnly, follow our step-by-step guide to getting started: 

  1. Set up your free account with FarmersOnly: After registering with FarmersOnly, you’ll browse our database of local singles before selecting the right dating package for you. 

  2. Create your unique profile: Let yourself open up and have a little fun with this part. This is your opportunity to showcase everything about yourself. Your profile is your first impression, so be honest and share what makes you uniquely you. Don’t forget to choose a profile picture that makes you feel good.

  3. It’s time to start browsing local singles: Once your profile is set up, you’re ready to browse singles in your area. Log in to FarmersOnly to begin!

  4. Send a flirt or start a conversation: With FarmersOnly, you don’t have to start talking immediately — you can avoid awkward small talk. Send a flirt to see if you receive one back. Or, you can dive right in and start a conversation. Nothing is holding you back! 

  5. Get to know your potential love match: If you’ve found someone who catches your attention and you feel you may be able to relate on different levels, it’s the perfect time to take things a step further. Our members can spend weeks, even months, getting to know each other online before speaking or meeting in person. Others decide they want to meet right away. You have complete control over your dating life with FarmersOnly.

  6. Have your first conversation: Conversing online is amazing, but eventually, you’ll want to hear the voice behind the profile photo. Take it to the next level and schedule a phone or video chat and get that much more familiar with each other. Sparks may fly even more once you see each other. 

  7. Go on a date: You’ve chatted online. You’ve spent weeks calling each other nightly. You can’t start your day without saying “hello”. Now, you’re ready. You can’t wait to finally meet in person. First dates don’t have to be stressful. We recommend doing something that excites you both, like going for ice cream on the waterfront or a night of pool at a local bar. 

For rural singles looking for someone in their local area, online dating has never been more fun. Register for your free membership and start browsing local singles today.

Local Dating FAQs

What Is the Best Local Dating Website?

If you’re searching for a local dating site that puts YOUR needs above their own, we certainly think you’ll find that FarmersOnly is the best — but that’s not the only reason why.

Ask our clients and you’ll find that our singles find our platform easy to use and easy to find a match. From setting up your profile to sending flirts and connecting in our chat rooms, FarmersOnly makes it easy to date locals online.

We have thousands of singles registered and waiting to meet their match. With a large database of local singles, it’s easy to meet and get to know people in your area.

How Is Local Dating Easier Online?

This isn’t Ireland and we don’t have the history or tradition of hiring “matchmakers” in the US. Although your mother’s best friend might just think she’s a matchmaker in your small town. 

Rural living can feel way too confined and closed in, but with online dating, communicating with other singles in your area has never been easier.

FarmersOnly provides an online dating opportunity for those who enjoy rural living. Whether you’re a farmer, rancher, or you just enjoy the small-town life you’ve grown up with, it’s easy to find local singles who share your same interests on FarmersOnly.

Our platform gives local singles the opportunity to meet, chat, and get to know each other online before committing to meeting in person. 

How Many Potential Matches Exist for Locals?

Meeting people in rural areas is more difficult for obvious reasons, especially if you’ve never left the area. Chances are, you may have already dated a few of the available singles in your area — Aunt Martha keeps trying to connect you with the volunteers at the animal shelter down the street. 

However, with FarmersOnly you can find local singles you may have yet to be introduced to. You can log in, browse singles within your desired radius, and start conversations. 

Suddenly you have more options than you imagined in your home state. 

Local Dating Is Easier Than Ever With Farmers Only

Put fate in your own hands — just because you live in a small town doesn’t mean you can’t find love locally. FarmersOnly gives local singles, even those living in rural America, the ideal platform to meet people with similar interests and values within your area.

Our website is fun and simple to use. We love connecting rural and country singles because we know how difficult it can be to meet “the one” when you feel like you’ve already been introduced to every single person in your area. 

All you have to do is register and start browsing local singles. It doesn’t get easier than that!